honestly? straight men don’t even like women, they like the false and idealized versions of women they see in porn and on tv. they talk about real women (even their wives and girlfriends!) with thinly veiled disgust and condescension because they’d rather have sentient sex dolls than living, breathing human women with personalities and opinions. women love women better than men do because we actually love women.
just so you all know! this post has nothing to do with my own dating life (which is fine, not that i owe anybody an explanation) or that of any other woman (which is none of my business, unless we’re friends and they specifically ask me for input), but was made after a series of incidents in which men hit on/harassed me in ways that made it clear to me that they had far less interest in my personhood than in whatever porny fantasies they felt they could slot me into. it’s not that i don’t think men can do better, it’s that you all consistently choose not to! lmao but hey! i guess it’s a lot easier to believe a woman is a judgmental incel bitch than that misogyny shapes interpersonal relationships, huh?
gay ppl who inject the concept of homophobia into the social structures of their magical fantasy worlds bc they want to use their own work as an outlet to talk and vent a little about their personal experiences:
straight ppl who inject the concept of homophobia into the social structures of their magical fantasy worlds bc the concept of gay ppl being happy and accepted is too “unrealistic” and they have absolutely nothing to actually say about the issue and just included it for the sake of watching us suffer:
I’m getting emotional thinking about little Fjord in the orphanage, growing up alone and neglected and unwanted. And he learns to act and adopt new roles because maybe if he can become someone else, maybe someone will finally want him.
matt: percy isn’t here, right now. he’s on another continent. with kids. liam: he’s got his head shoved up the ass of a clock, right now. leave him be.
tom holland just posted a video on instagram like “I’m sorry that there’s no new news on the spiderman sequel but I just got the script I’m about to read it!!” and he held up the script and it said “spider-man: far from home” so yeah he just spoiled the spider-man sequel title while announcing he had no news on the spider-man sequel,, good job tom
we need to stop idolizing tom holland immediately. yesterday, actually.
it’s really cool that he’s this seemingly progressive sweet young dude but i saw a whole post about how he’s “the perfect example of non-toxic masculinity uwu” and another post gave him credit for trans-coding peter parker like “coding” stuff in homecoming wasn’t basic “ha ha misgendering is funny” stuff or misogyny and also stuff that’s in the script which he did not write and should not get credit for.
like………. he’s great. watch his interviews, enjoy his performances.
but also he’s like 21??? im 21 and im incredibly stupid all the time. tom’s also gonna be incredibly stupid because like……. people in their early 20s….. are stupid…. and say stupid shit…. and if you hold them to an impossibly high standard…. they will fail you…. no matter how good their intentions are….
just. cut it out early before this turns into another idolization-to-hatred cycle.
a wonder woman movie set in the 80s gives us ample reason to have an adolescent bruce wayne acting like the little angsty bitch he’s always known to be and i, for one, am grateful we’ll see batman inventing a time machine to travel to the past just to stop diana from seeing that
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