platovevo:

platovevo:

honestly? straight men don’t even like women, they like the false and idealized versions of women they see in porn and on tv. they talk about real women (even their wives and girlfriends!) with thinly veiled disgust and condescension because they’d rather have sentient sex dolls than living, breathing human women with personalities and opinions. women love women better than men do because we actually love women.

just so you all know! this post has nothing to do with my own dating life (which is fine, not that i owe anybody an explanation) or that of any other woman (which is none of my business, unless we’re friends and they specifically ask me for input), but was made after a series of incidents in which men hit on/harassed me in ways that made it clear to me that they had far less interest in my personhood than in whatever porny fantasies they felt they could slot me into. it’s not that i don’t think men can do better, it’s that you all consistently choose not to! lmao but hey! i guess it’s a lot easier to believe a woman is a judgmental incel bitch than that misogyny shapes interpersonal relationships, huh?