Bi women who would only date a man if he was also bi are not inherently fetishizing mlm. It’s okay to only want to be with someone who understands what it’s like to live under homophobia.
Wanting partners who relate to your experiences isn’t the same thing as promoting harmful media or turning an identity into a kink
This thread contains an amazing list of concrete ways to help fight the appalling ways that our immigrants and their children are being treated. Please donate, call, and spread this info!
Because I’ve been asking this, and I’m sure others have as well.